And no broken bones!
If you’ve been reading this blog for awhile, you probably remember that last year, during a Labor Day picnic, I stepped in a hole while carrying DJ and broke my ankle. What followed were 3 very difficult and stressful months for our family. We were talking about this dreadful event at the dinner table last week, and Bee said, “When you broke your ankle….that was a BAD time,” and my husband replied, “That’s when we learned how much we need Mom.”
I learned how much I need them too because during my first week on crutches, I caught one in a throw rug, fell, and broke a toe on my good foot, which pretty much incapacitated me. I highly value my independence, so this was a very humbling experience for me, and one I hope to never repeat. Thankfully, this Labor Day weekend was very fun! It was jam-packed with activity, so I’m going to break it down by day:
SATURDAY
The kids asked to take part in their favorite weekend activity, garage saling! I’m not joking…at 7:30 AM, the girls were standing at my side of the bed, attempting to quietly stare me awake, and as soon as I opened one eye they blurted out, “Can we go to garage sales?!” This was an easy request to say yes to, because my husband and I also love saling. We only went a handful of times this summer because of the stifling heat, and ongoing house projects that consumed all of our weekends.
So, we loaded everybody into the van, the girls with their sunglasses and garage sale purses, and picked up donuts for breakfast (which the kids call “donuts for the road.”) We went to probably a dozen sales, and aside from the usual bounty of name-brand kids’ clothes, including a stack of Mudd, and Limited Too jeans for Bee, here are some of my favorite finds:
A new-in-the-box, Pampered Chef accent decorator. It retails for $24, and they were asking $15, but my husband – a master negotiator – got it for the bargain price of only $6.75!
It has 6 tips so now, when I make the kids’ birthday cakes, I won’t have to limp by with my cheapie, salvage store set anymore.
I also got this tea light holder and candles for only $1 for both,
and a large, stainless steel mixing bowl for only 50 cents. When combined with my other 2, I have a complete, nesting set. These are my favorite bowls to use when cooking and baking, so I was pretty thrilled about this. Also, a man whose Mother had just passed was selling all of her vintage, retro kitchenware, and when I commented about how I have a penchant for retro stuff, and have been wanting a food mill for a long time, he gave me this one for free!
See the laptop in the background? My husband just bought that for me, because he insisted that writers need laptops, and he was hoping it would encourage me to get to work on my book!
My husband cleaned and oiled it, and it works like a charm. The one I had my eye on was $50 – I like this price much better.
Bee bought an abacus with her own money, and played with it all afternoon. She had just learned how to add columns of numbers with an abacus in her challenge math class, so she was excited to find this one for only a dime. I have to say that if I didn’t vividly recall being in labor with her for like, 20-something hours, I would swear she could not possibly be my child.
She explained to us how it works, but I'm still not 100% sure I get it. She amazes me with her smarts.
Cakes, who has a heart of gold, “bought” me these two things (they were on a table marked “FREE”) for next Mother’s Day, and tried so hard to wait (almost a full year!), but she only made it to our driveway before she had to give them to me, because she was just bursting with the supreme effort of keeping her surprise a secret.
Inside the little box is a dried flower, and it says, “If I had a flower for every time I think of you, I could walk forever in my garden.” Also, she gave me the hotel “softening lotion” because she said, “I know grown-ups love stuff like that.” She’s so funny and cute!
My funniest memory of this weekend’s garage sales was when an older lady (I’d say in her early 80′s, maybe?) told me an incredibly off-color joke! And this is why I love garage sales so much – not just for the bargains, but for the entertainment!
On the way home, we stopped to pick up a few incredible deals at the grocery store, including 4-pound bags of pure cane sugar for only $1.48 – and no limit! I bought 6 and poured them, along with my existing sugar stock, into one of my food-grade buckets, which I also use to store bulk-purchased flour and grains (they stay fresh for a LONG time this way). Of course, because I am me, one of the bags got away from me…..
I now have about 50 pounds of sugar on hand. That ought to hold us for awhile!
SUNDAY
I made scrambled eggs, fried turkey ham, and cinnamon rolls for breakfast, and we went to church as usual. Our pastor gave a sermon about asking God to help you discover and use your special gifts for His kingdom, and I swear he was looking right at me when was speaking. I feel a real push by God (and my husband) to write lately…perhaps I need to pay attention, huh?
After church, we came home and changed, and I prepared sandwiches, snacks, and drinks, which we packed in a cooler for a fun day trip to the Natural History Museum and an amazing fossil gorge.
This museum is at my alma mater, and is always FREE – a terrific value because it has so many interesting exhibits. It was funny how astonished the kids were that Mommy was ever a teenage girl who went to college. To them, I’m just Mom, and I’ve always been the same as I am right now.
After the museum, we went to the nearby fossil gorge (also FREE!), which was created after two catastrophic floods, fifteen years apart, washed away so much soil and bedrock that all these ancient fossils were exposed. Now, I’m not one to get excited about rocks, but the fossils here are simply incredible! We spent a couple hours walking and climbing, and exclaiming over awesome finds. It was like a treasure hunt!


I took pictures of some of the coolest fossils:
After a lot of walking and climbing, my ankle was getting sore and swollen, so I sat down to take a break. Cakes was concerned that I might be lonely, so she decided to sit and keep me company. My little sweetheart!
I snapped this picture of us because I was just telling my husband that someday, the kids are going to look at all the pictures of our fun, family outings and wonder, “Where was Mom?” I’m always behind the camera, and I don’t generally like pictures of myself anyway, so of the 114 pictures taken this weekend, I’m only in 2.
After the fossil gorge, we stopped at a park with a picnic table because I’d brought along a cheesecake sampler for an afternoon snack.
This park had a water fountain for dogs, which the kids found really funny. Cakes wanted to give her Brown Sugar Puppy a drink.
We were welcomed home by the delicious smell of the round steak I’d prepared before church, simmering in the slow cooker.
After dinner, the kids had bubble baths and went to bed because everyone was tired from our busy day. After I tucked DJ in, my husband peeked in and asked, “DJ, do you want me to pray for you?” DJ said yes, so my husband sat down on his bed and said their usual nighttime prayer. When he finished DJ said, in a quiet, sleepytime voice, “Way-men. Now, get out Daddy.”
I’m telling you, these kids are a laugh a minute! Every day, one of them says something that totally cracks us up, and the advantage of blogging is that I can record their funny little quips for posterity while they’re still fresh in my mind.
MONDAY
Because we spent the last two days having fun, today will truly be a Labor Day for us. My husband and I both hope to finish up some projects, but this morning my family brought me pancakes in bed, AND my husband kept the kids occupied long enough for me to finish this very long blog post! (He took them to a garage sale and bought a Hot Wheels track. I’m sure this will come as a surprise to no one).
They’re very sweet to me, and I’m pretty spoiled.







































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What a lovely weekend Heather. Sounds like everyone had a great time and I’m glad you all stayed safe!
I’m so glad you had a better weekend this year, you deserved it.
What a fun weekend! You deserve to be spoiled-you’re a fantastic mother.
If you thought the preacher was talking to you…the Holy Spirit WAS talking to you! WRITE GIRL, WRITE!!!
I didn’t get to read this entire post b/c its actually distraction from the post I’m looking for to work on some stuff tonight but I did get to the part about you writing and I wanted to encourage you: I love your blog as a christian woman for a lot of the same reasons that I love the Duggars books/shows. They (and you) are very good at what you do (keeping your home and the hearts in it), but you don’t do things the way i would necessarily, at all times, and we don’t always believe EXACTLY the same on EVERY detail but what I love about your tone of writing is that you are NOT dogmatic (the way I do things is the way God wants YOU do do things and if you’re not doing it that way then you’re probably sinning.) The style of dogmatism I’m thinking of would be along the lines of the Pearl’s. When I read the Pearls I take the good out of the bad and move on; but it’s not an enjoyable read. With the Duggars; and you; I love every read and can take the stuff that works for my family and use it and leave the other stuff knowing that you, whose advise i’m taking, wouldn’t judge me harshly for it if you knew me personally. lol. I hope that makes since. I just love and appreciate you’re writing style and that you and your family share your lives so openly. If you wrote a book; i’d buy it and recommend it. (I already recommend your blog to everyone as it is.
Thank you for the encouragement!
Heather, I just want to encourage you to write that book, but to also remember that being a mother is really enough. It’s more than enough! Of course, your writing is huge inspiration to others and I would love to read any book you write. But using your talents for your family, which you are already doing, is one of the noblest things you can do according to everything I read in the Bible. You’re actually doing what many women dream of doing. I just hope you enjoy the sense of accomplishment in a job well done and are never tempted to feel like it’s not enough.
I feel so bad that you’re lonely! I hope that the friendship and sense of community you find here helps alleviate your sadness, at least a little. Not a day goes by that I’m not so grateful for my close marriage relationship, because I grew up with divorced parents who fought bitterly, and I always longed for a happy family life. This is why I try so hard to give that to my own children. Also, I’ve been in a bad marriage, and I’ve been alone, and I much prefer being with the person who is right for me.You mentioned that you’re not a Christian, and I don’t know if you’re religious at all, but I’m going to pray for you daily, because I do believe that God has a special person out there for you, who would be happy to drive you and your little girl to the museum! Sometimes its very hard for us to be patient, and wait for God’s timing, but I’ve found that even though I don’t always understand them, God’s ways are always better than mine. God bless you!
Heather, if you only knew how much joy I felt when I saw you actually responded to my post !! Thank you. Actually, to say thank you is not enough — and to know that you will be praying for me….. that just brings me to tears. I think what’s really getting to me is that I’m coming to terms with the fact that I won’t have the opportunity to grow my family…..and when I see my little one so alone — like she doesn’t really belong to any tribe — I just feel so so sad. I kept hoping that Mr. Right would come along before it was too late (biologically speaking) and now time is pretty much up. Heather, I want you to know how much we need you. You are a role model for us. For all of us. I might not have someone to drive us to the museum but I just started reading all your posts and already I’ve changed !! I decided to make a schedule, I am heading out to buy those file wall-mountable-thingy-ma-jigs and I decided I will work (just like you) to be debt free. It’s gonna take me forever but, I can do it. I know I can. Simplicity and uncomplicated-ness is so apealing to me. Please know I will continue to read…..and also, know I sending soooo much love across the airwaves.
Thanks to everyone for the writing encouragement! I’m working on writing just a little each day, just for fun – no pressure! We’ll see where it leads.
Wow! It’s hard to believe it’s been a year since you hurt your ankle. It sounds like you guys had a wonderful weekend.
You are so lucky to have your husband behind you in your writing! I know you can write a wonderful book! If I can do it you can do it. I final finished book 1 of a series I started writing 4 years ago! Alas though I finished it over a month ago and my husband hasn’t even read word of it. So good luck and it will be a great help to you having him as a cheerleader!
He is pretty awesome! I think I’ll keep him around
Observations and favorite things: #1- very pretty in the photo, Heather! #2- favorite comment: “Typical.” on the sugar picture…that’s what my life is like too! #3- love the photo of you trying to hug DJ, #4- love the photo of sweet sleepy DJ, #5- you’re super mom! man that was a lot to pack into two days!
-Sierra
Thank you, Sierra! It was a lot of activity for one weekend – I’m kind of paying the price now, because my ankle has been stiff and sore ever since. But it was fun!
You’re my garage saling muse! I almost never go, but when I do, I’m so glad! In fact, on Saturday, I saw one nearby and decided to stop-because it made me think of you! Wound up finding Sarah a Children’s Place winter coat for $2! And, given that it’ll only get cold enough here for her to wear it a few times (sorry, please don’t hate me!), I’ll be able to consign it for $10 or more! Score one for me and thanks for the inspiration!
And I’ll continue the writing encouragement…you have a unique style compared to other mom bloggers I read, and I really enjoy it. I’ll buy the book for sure!