* Cakes is loving school! She’s made a new friend (Sara), and likes her teacher. Every day, when she comes home, she gives me what I call “the potty count.” Ex: “Mom, I only went potty 2 times today!” I think this is because the issue of the automatic toilets weighed so heavily on her, but I asked her how she’s been doing with them, and she said, “Oh fine…I just put toilet paper over the sensor like you said.” I’m very entertained by the papers she brings home every week, especially her penmanship worksheets, in which her name is printed in block letters at the top of the page, with several lines below for practice. The first week, she wrote her name on every line in flowery cursive, except the last line, where her teacher obviously corrected her. When I asked her about it, she proclaimed printing to be “boring.” This week, she seems to be experimenting with spelling her name in different ways. What can I say? Cakes is a free spirit. I have sympathy for her teacher though – this might be quite a long year for her.
* Bee is relieved because, after my husband and I expressed our concerns to the school superintendent last spring, showering after P.E. is no longer required of 5th graders! (See The Shower Problem). It pays to speak up and advocate for your kids when there’s an issue that you feel strongly about (not every little issue – you must choose your battles carefully because kids need to learn how to solve problems, and you want to be taken seriously when you do need to intervene). Bee’s teacher told us that this was always a source of great fear and anxiety for all of her students, so she’s relieved that it’s no longer an issue. Also, she prepared and bound a special, advanced spelling book just for Bee, who completed the 6th grade spelling book in 4th grade, and is in a group all by herself. She said, “When students are as advanced as she is, I really like to challenge them!” We were so happy, because this is just what Bee needs! She’s also in challenge math, and she seems very content in school this year.
* DJ is doing surprisingly well without his sisters at home. I was concerned that he would be bored all day by himself, but he entertains himself remarkably well. He follows me around when I’m doing chores, keeping up a constant stream of chatter, and last week I was very amused when I was hanging clothes on the line, and he went into the garage, got his little plastic chair, and brought it out to the clothesline so he could sit and chat with me (I wish I’d thought to take a picture). When I was done, we went on a tour of the backyard, inspected the pumpkins, picked some crabapples, and found part of a bird’s egg, which he was fascinated by.
I suspect that he’s getting ready to potty-train, because he now shuts himself in his room when he’s doing his business, and also he likes to sit on the potty after his bath. The girls both trained a few months before their 3rd birthdays, so he’s right on time. This can’t come soon enough for me…I’m so ready to be done with diapers.
* We have lots of nicknames for our kids, and last week at the bank, a lady bent down to DJ and said, “Aren’t you a cutie pie?” DJ replied very indignantly, “I not cutie pie! I BUBBALICIOUS!” So then I had to explain that I sometimes affectionately call him “Bub,” or “Bubba,” which morphed into “Bubbalicious,” because that was a popular gum when I was a kid. However, this was no worse than having to explain to people that my daughter is not named after a snack food – we just call her Cakes because it’s short for “Babycakes,” which was her nickname when I was pregnant with her. When I first started blogging, people asked me about the kids’ nicknames all the time – they sincerely believed that’s what we named them, which always made me laugh. One commenter actually berated me, “I can’t believe you named your kids that? That’s horrible! What’s wrong with you?” Actually, my children all have quite traditional names, but I don’t routinely use their real names, my husband’s name, our last name, or even mention the state we live in, in order to protect them. I also remove all identifying information from photos, because I think bloggers with small children need to be very careful.
* I have the worst allergies this fall! I’ve never had seasonal allergies before, but every day I sneeze and sniffle and wheeze, and I’m bummed out by this, but I think I’m going to have to go back to using the dryer. I read that line-dried clothes can have a lot of pollen on them, and I certainly don’t need anything to aggravate my problems. It’s a shame because I love the clean, fresh scent of line-dried clothing, and the energy savings from not using the drier.
* I thought that I would have more time, and get more done with both girls in school, but this doesn’t seem to be the case. I feel like I’m always, always behind! I did accomplish quite a bit yesterday, though (probably a fluke). I made 2 bottles of glass cleaner, and 1 bottle of all-purpose cleaner, using these 5 inexpensive household staples:
These cleaners use very small amounts of already cheap ingredients, so the cost for all three bottles was less than a buck. I think both solutions work very well, so if you’d like to try them out for yourself, here are the recipes:
Homemade 409 (all-purpose cleaner)
-1 tablespoon ultra-concentrated Dawn, or 2 tablespoons regular strength Dawn. Use the BLUE Dawn only – it cleans better, for some unknown reason.
-1 teaspoon Borax
-2 tablespoons white vinegar
Pour one cup hot water into 32-ounce spray bottle (the hot water is just to dissolve the Borax – the cleaner will still work fine when it cools). Add other ingredients, and swirl to mix. Fill the container to the 32-ounce mark with water.
Homemade Windex
1/8 cup ammonia
1/2 cup rubbing alcohol
1/4 teaspoon blue Dawn
Mix all ingredients in spray bottle (you will probably find a funnel helpful here). Fill to 32-ounce mark with water. Add a couple drops of blue food coloring if desired, to distinguish it as glass cleaner.
* Yesterday, I also made big batches of onion soup mix, and taco seasoning mix, a really big batch of my roast chicken seasoning, and small batches of greek seasoning (similar to Cavenders), and yellow rice mix. I love spice-making day, because the whole kitchen smells like a spice cupboard! For more info, see Money Saving Mixes.
I don't like the math and conversions involved in making triple and quadruple batches - see the handy calculator?
Spice making was even more fun yesterday because I bought this Groupon type thingie at our local bulk/health food store – $40 in groceries for $20 – and invested in an itty bitty box of saffron strands, and this pretty little mortar and pestle, so I could grind them and make authentic saffron yellow rice.
Saffron is the most expensive spice in the world (this tiny box – .018 ounces – was $4.65. OUCHIE!) but 3 little strands will season an entire dish, and it’s so delicious. If you’ve ever had paella, it’s what gives it that yellow color and savory flavor. Also, I’ve been making “poor man’s yellow rice,” a recipe sent to me by my reader, Tammy, and it’s very good, but I found that I did miss the saffron, so when that 50% off deal came up, I grabbed it!
If you’d like to make your own saffron yellow rice, here’s the recipe for the seasoning mix:
1 teaspoon onion powder
1/4 teaspoon garlic powder
1/2 teaspoon ground saffron
1/4 teaspoon turmeric
1/4 teaspoon cumin
1/2 teaspoon salt
1/4 teaspoon sugar
I triple this, and keep it in an airtight container. Use 1 tablespoon per cup of uncooked rice.
* I’m developing an easy-to-follow system for keeping track of what I need to do each day, involving index cards and a small file box. I’m doing this because I find that it’s easier for me to get over my emotional housework stumbling blocks if I break my work into small pieces, and focus on just one piece at a time – in this case, whatever is written on the card. I’ll post more in detail when I’m finished with it.
* I ordered my first organic fruit delivery from The Fruit Guys this week. A box of 25 servings of organic staples – apples, citrus, bananas, pears, and peaches – is only $34, delivered. I’ll let you know what I think of this service. If it’s good, I’m going to set up auto-delivery.
* I also purchased a “keeper.” I first read about this in the Tightwad Gazette, and it was also recommended to me by my friend and reader, Becky, who has used the same one for 10 years and loves it. It’s basically an internally-worn, reusable menstrual cup made of latex, or for those with latex allergies, medical grade silicone. It’s only $37, and there’s a 3-month guarantee. Since we’re on a septic system, this seems like a safer, environmentally-friendly, and more economical way to deal with Aunt Flo’s unwelcome monthly impositions, (sorry to my handful of male readers if this offends your delicate sensibilities, but it’s an unpleasant fact of female life). If you use it for 10 years, it works out to a monthly cost of only 29 cents, and since I have 2 girls also, well….you do the math.
So, I’m going to give it a shot, and I’ll let you know what I think!
* Finally, I have a nasty headache today that I cannot shake. If anyone has good headache relief tips, I’m listening, because Tylenol and Advil aren’t cutting it.
Have a great day all!












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I live by Excedrin Migraine for any type of headache. It has aspirin, Tylenol and caffeine in it. It works wonders for me, as well as lots and lots of water. If I’m feeling a headache come on, water is my first defense, next comes the Excedrin.
Yep. I swear by Excedrine for my headaches. I use the Wal-Mart version and it works like a champ.
Sorry to hear about your pain. I saw in a previous post that you’re a fan of green smoothies. This one is supposed to be for headaches: apples, broccoli and cauliflower. Add more apple if too bitter. Here’s the website:
http://www.livestrong.com/article/355044-juicing-for-headaches/
I have a keeper too. I read online that if dump the contents into a plant’s soil it is great fertilizer. I tried in our our lantana and it worked! I wouldn’t put in on my food plants though.
I hope the Keeper works out for you, if it doesn’t don’t give up! There are so many alternative brands now! When I first heard of cups the only one I knew about was the Diva Cup. I tried it and HATED it! Didn’t work, was horribly uncomfortable, H.A.T.E.D. it! Then I tried one called the Lady Cup (I think, they come in different colours and are called “green cup” or “blue cup” etc.) and the difference was night and day! I would NOT want to be without it!
I usually use Aleve for my headaches and take two to three. I’m usually pain free in about 15 minutes. I’ve never tried Excedrin though.
Thanks for checking in on us yesterday with the hurricane going on. We are doing OK today and glad to report that our power came back on after 8.5 hours off. I was really worried about the power since we have a large upright freezer full of food (cooked and meat) that I have found on sale time and time again and stock pile with. I mean we are talking .67 a lb boneless skinless chicken breasts! Thankfully the power resumed in enough time for it not to go bad. We just purchased a shed that has yet to be delivered so hopefully once we can recoop our savings, we can purchase a generator to help us during hurricane season. I’m still worried since we have only gone thru the eye and have the entire other side of the storm to weather! Please keep praying we fare ok thru this!
Really sorry you are having allergy problems. I am in Texas and live with allergy problems almost all year. I hate to see you stop line drying your laundry. Have you considered a nice drying rack? I have 2 really nice racks built by Amish people that I use to dry our laundry. When I hang a load on the racks I make sure the fan is on over the rack and it is dry in the morning. This has saved us a lot over the years.
I use Ibuprofen for headaches. My doctor told me to use 3. I do when I have a need and it seems to knock it out quickly.
I, too, have some allergies — not as bad as they used to be. I seldom use the clothes line. The husband wears dress shirts and pants to work and they just don’t come out decent. Or the dress shirts need more ironing–bleh. I never put sheets as I near to ag fields, this year corn, last year hay — tooooo much pollen and dust. And the mowing service (dad) never fails to start up the tractor when I have a load out on the line. So by the time I drag them up the stairs and outside, then go out and get them again. . . only to have crisp towels. Nah.
I do have a couple of those retracting lines in the basement though. The work especially nice for things not quite dry or fleece shirts (which my dryer likes to melt).
Loved the comment about your kids’ nicknames. We’re the same in our house – we call our kids by their nicknames a lot. Our youngest daughter’s nickname is Boo, with several variations including Boo-Boolicious! My second daughter’s nickname is Tootsie, and once at the post office, a friendly old man who we didn’t know said to her in a booming voice “Well, hello, Tootsie!” She looked startled and I said “That’s your name, isn’t it?” The postmaster wrinkled his nose and said “Oh no, you can’t be serious!”
I was so grateful for your recent advice when I asked you how to safely include kids’ pictures on my blog. I just took the plunge the other day and did a family introduction post, after which my parents promptly freaked out. I’ve un-posted the intro until we can think it through further and make sure we’re being as anonymous and careful as possible. Us mama bears need to protect our sweet little bears!
This is my first time commenting, but I read often! Thanks for a wonderful blog!
Angela (budgetbumpkin.blogspot.com)
This post was packed with all the things I love about your blog — recipes, kidlet updates, frugal solutions, and even a teaser about a new organization system (can’t wait to see a future post about the index card idea). I have been trying to figure out an easy-to-manage system here — I get so overwhelmed so easily. Hope your headache is much better today and you all have a great weekend!
I’m looking forward to hearing about the index cards that you are using. I have also been having the same problem with my housework. I’ve used my home planner for years, but lately I’ve been so overwhelmed that I just shut down.
Thanks for sharing your recipes for homemade cleaners! I was just saying that I wanted a new one because the one I was making I did not like because the smell was making me sick. It was Dr. Bonners soap with white vinager, not a good combo, at least smell wise.
OMGOSHHHHHH!!!! I have never heard of the “keeper” thingy. Do you leave it in for days and days or do you take it out each day? I’m so confused and intrigued! You HAVE to let us know how that works. Wow! How funny would that be? A whole blog post on the cup that catches…well…you know. But if anyone can do it tastefully and with a bit of lightheartedness, it’s you. And for headaches? A really nice warm washcloth over my forehead and sinus area feels amazing and so soothing.
I know! It all seemed kind of icky to me, but my friend explained that you just empty it, rinse it out and put it back in. She said it takes a cycle or 2 to get the hang of it, and you should wear a pad as back up on heavy days, just in case. But she swears by it, so we shall see. I won’t be able to give you a verdict until next month, because Flo is on her way out right now (thank God!)
Also, I tried a hot pad on my neck, and an ice pack on my forehead and over my eyes, and it made a big difference, but I had that headache for a full 18 hours!
I wanted to echo the other ladies and say that I really like my DivaCup but I can only use it later in my period, after the cramps subside, otherwise I experience more cramp pain. So if you get the same, don’t give up! You can use a combo of the cup and disposable products in the way that’s most comfortable for you and still save some money and help the environment.
Bronwen! I’m so glad you posted here…I gave you a little shout out on Facebook (are you on FB?) to thank you for all the promotion you do for this blog! Your plugs for WWYH turn up in my Statcounter all the time – most recently, your comment in a Ravelry message board drove quite a lot of traffic here – and I really appreciate that you spread the word! Thanks!
I’ve had my diva cup for two years now and I can’t imagine going back to tampons and pads. I recommend it to everyone I feel I (comfortably) can. I didn’t even know that there were alternatives though, which is awesome.
I also have a diva cup and a lady cup, I didn’t like the diva cup but the lady cup I LOVE! I’ve been using it for about 3 years, and I found that by turning it inside out, it “fits” better. I also had trouble the first couple of months, but I would never, ever go back to tampons or pads! I love how you can wear it all day and not have to bother with remembering to bring other feminine products with you. I swear I came up with the idea when I was a teenager
Ha-ha!! I hated having to change my pads in the bathroom at school and thought that if there was some sort of cup or plug that you wouldn’t have to change until you got home every day it would make my “time of the month” a whole lot better! I’m so glad that someone actually came up with such a device! Good luck with it, I hope that it works for you.
Hi there! I am attempting to make the saffron yellow rice mix. Is there a typo? I feel like I mixed the ingredients you suggested, and it made the amt for approx 1 C. Also, 1/2 teaspoon of ground saffron? How can that be, when you said only 3 strands flavor a whole dish? This looks so yummy! I can’t wait to make it up
I made the investment in the saffron, and just want to make sure I don’t waste it!
Nope, there’s no typo. I did say that 3 strands will flavor a whole dish (meaning ANY dish you use it in), but it’s a mild saffron flavor. The reason the yellow rice seasoning mix calls for a 1/2 teaspoon ground saffron is because I was trying to create a strong saffron flavor like Mahatma brand yellow rice. If you’re unsure whether you’ll like this, trying grinding up just 3 strands for your first batch, and see if it’s flavorful enough for you.
Just curious to know how the ‘keeper’ is working for you. I’m thinking of giving it a try. thanks! -kc
I really like it. It took a little time to get the hang of it, but now I can’t imagine being without it.